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I hate it when people get annoyed at you for liking a band that isn't metal and then they're like 'you're not a proper metal head you suck'... who cares. People can like what they want... does anyone agree/ disagree?






   

[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 6:00:36 AM 
Thank God, no, he works during the day. The only peace I have is when I go to work.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:58:54 AM)
[ron h] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:58:54 AM 
Wow...that really is a tough spot to be in...does he work nights too, or are you at least spared NOT having to be up at the same time as him?
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:53:55 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:53:55 AM 
14 year old daughter and  a 9 year old son. He calls me all kinds of names in front of the kids.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:51:39 AM)
[ron h] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:51:39 AM 
Can I ask how many kids you have?  I have an 18 yr. old daughter.  I hope they didn't have to hear him.   [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:49:33 AM)
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[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:49:33 AM 
Yeah, a permanent vacation from him!!!
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[lalouve] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:48:04 AM 
Ron is right Kit Kat, do it. It will help you a lot !

Hi Michael
[ron h] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:45:07 AM 
Need to take some vacation time from work and have a few more 'ME' days!!!  Why not, you desrve it!!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:38:55 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:44:19 AM 
Thank you ,Baby!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Phantom A6 from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:42:14 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:43:41 AM 
The only energy I have left is for my kids. That's why I haven't left him yet.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lalouve from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:40:36 AM)
[Phantom A6] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:42:14 AM 
I'm always there for you. Forever Baby.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:29:33 AM)
[lalouve] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:40:36 AM 
good for you. keep your energy. I learned it the hard way lol 2 marriages - 2 divorces lol
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:38:55 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:38:55 AM 
Believe me I have given up on him.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lalouve from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:37:35 AM)
[lalouve] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:37:35 AM 
Don't even try kit kat, it won't work ...... believe me it's no use ..... you can't change anyone who doesn't want to change
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:35:55 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:35:55 AM 
You can't teach that dog nothing!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:34:33 AM)
[ron h] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:34:33 AM 
I'd like to think you taught him a little lesson last night...but you know us men, sometimes we (some of us) can be pretty dense!!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:31:06 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:31:06 AM 
That what I think, that the problem is me.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:30:04 AM)
[ron h] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:30:04 AM 
I used to think it was me that brought it out of them, but my 1st wife never remarried and the husband of my 2nd (used to be best friend of mine) looks like hell!!! 
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:06:01 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:29:33 AM 
Michael.

You are always here for me when I need you the most!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Phantom A6 from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:27:39 AM)
[Phantom A6] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:27:39 AM 
Hi my Marie,
there coming better times for us.

  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:06:01 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:06:01 AM 
My ole man is not normal! LOL
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[ron h] Sunday, November 09, 2008 5:04:48 AM 
Aaahhhhh...gots to take your medicine today, huh Soy...oh well, good with the bad...I'm sure at the end of the season you'll be having the last laugh!!!
My guys are looking decent as of late...hopefully this will be the begining of a good stretch for them.
I'm gonna try to get tickets for the game they're gonna play at Wrigley Field in January...that'll be pretty cool!!

  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Soylentgreen4u from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:42:11 PM)
[ron h] Sunday, November 09, 2008 4:59:53 AM 

How can people go from one extreme to the next and NOT think that one doesn't carry over to the other has baffled me from the first time it happened.   I am NO expert on anything with relationships and marriage (twice divorced myself...) but the mind of a normal person doesn't shift gears at the drop of a dime!!!
And besides, who wants to 'be' with someone after disrespecting/degrading them???  Normal people just don't do that!!!


  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Sunday, November 09, 2008 3:01:15 AM)
[156555464] Sunday, November 09, 2008 3:01:15 AM 
What sucks is having a husband  who calls you every name in the book, then expects you to lie down with him!!  Not happening!!!!! No, not going to do it!!!!!!
Edited at: Sunday, November 09, 2008 3:01:53 AM
[Soylentgreen4u] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:42:11 PM 
EVERTHING IS A-OK....HOPEFULLY THE SAME FOR YOU...YOUR HAWK ARE PERFORMING WELL FOR THE MOMENT ANYWAY,I'M SURE YOU'RE PLEASED...GONNA GET SOME MAJOR RIBBING FROM MY LEAF FRIENDS TOMORROW,BUT THAT'S COOL,I LIKE THE GOOD FUN.
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[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:36:47 PM 
I'm just glad it's you Soy...how's everything up north??
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Soylentgreen4u from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:35:04 PM)
[Soylentgreen4u] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:35:04 PM 
RATZZZZZZ...BUSTED.....
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[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:34:39 PM 
yep--Ron --I got several hang up calls & heavu breathing calls on fri --home & cell phone --unknown name & #--but Soy admitted it was him & I had to send pics of me in my snickers --well gotta go (to work )
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:31:15 PM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:32:43 PM 
checked your fridge laetly Soy--mine all mine he he he
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Soylentgreen4u from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:31:08 PM)
[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:31:15 PM 
Hey pal...who's the peeping tom here?? 
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Soylentgreen4u from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:23:30 PM)
[Soylentgreen4u] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:31:08 PM 
SPEAKING OF SNICKERS....DID I MENTION I ALSO HAVE ABOUT A DOZEN SNICKERS BARS ALONG WITH MY 15 OR SO REESES IN THE FRIDGE??????....WHICH ARE GUARDED BY THE DEMONS OF THE CHOCOLATE UNDERWORLD...
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[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:26:30 PM 
Soy--you're calling Ron a perv when you admited you were the one giving me the heavy breathing calls on fri just to get pictures of me in my Snickers--I think he learned it from you --thanks Soy--not 1 hang up call today
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Soylentgreen4u from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:23:30 PM)
[Soylentgreen4u] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:23:30 PM 
PERV...
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[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:18:45 PM 
Silly Ron--me thinks you've become anal -retentive--best if you hand over what's left of the goodies to me now !
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[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:16:32 PM 
never met a BUTTer cup i didn't like to eat 
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:14:44 PM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:14:44 PM 
I love their coleslaw !!--will have to pick some up on the way to work--it's almost as good as mine !!--thanks for putting the idea in my head Ron--that almos tmakes up for eating all the RPB CUPS--were they good ??
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:11:04 PM)
[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:11:04 PM 
I got the breast and wing with potato wedges and slaw w/biscuit 'n honey
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:07:33 PM 
you're learning Ron--never argue with a woman--especially this chick because you so won't win--man now you got me hungry for KFC --i love those mashed potato bowls--which is weird 'cause I hate instant potatoes but I like theirs
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[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 9:04:58 PM 
Now I know who you're talking about, I didn't know that was his name...never watched Carson much...

hey i'm not gonna argue with you...you already told me where i ate...

  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:58:03 PM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:58:03 PM 
you never heard of him ??--he was on alot of tv shows back in the 70's --80's --Johnny Carson--Smothers' Brothers
he was the world's top mentalist --he would pick members from the audience & he would tell them waht they were thinking --pretty amazing stuff when I was younger--Dad always said he planned it --met those people before the show but I was a believer
And I believe I'm related to him--let me try it out --Ron --you're thinking --hhmm--you're thinking "I should'nt have eaten all of Lana's RPB CUP's& when she gets her fly swatter she's gonna go hary cary on me "--is that what you were thinking Ron ??
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[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:50:42 PM 
Who is this Amazing Kreskin I'm hearing about??
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:48:49 PM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:48:49 PM 
yep--I'm related to the Amazing Kreskin--I see all-- I know some --& I tell nothing !!
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[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:46:27 PM 
you can tell what i eat by what i use to clean with??  impressive   

as a matter of fact i did yesterday, that's what it was left over from!!

  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:37:25 PM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:37:25 PM 

moist towelettes--you went to KFC  didn't ya ??


  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:34:25 PM)
[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:34:25 PM 
Hey now   NO cross-threading 

i used moist towelettes...

  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:32:23 PM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:32:23 PM 
pass the puff's plus will ya --I feel a little teary eyed ---
oh I get it --you used all the kleenex to wipe your mouth didn't ya ??--too much sugar Ron ??
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:30:09 PM)
[ron h] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:30:09 PM 
I feel for ya L...I was rooting for Paterno to get to Big Dance myself
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:19:42 PM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 08, 2008 8:19:42 PM 
Penn State losing to Iowa & snapping their winning streak--those damn Hawkeyes pecked my Nittany Lions to death & I had to sit there watching helplessly 
[mmmmmm] Sunday, November 02, 2008 6:40:40 PM 
HAVING TO WAIT 30 MINUTES FOR THE NEXT FOOTBALL GAME TO START 
[mmmmmm] Sunday, November 02, 2008 6:01:35 PM 
Ron--you should start your horror dvd collection just in case there's no horror on--I have 55 dvd's & I'm just getting started !!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Sunday, November 02, 2008 5:49:51 PM)
[ron h] Sunday, November 02, 2008 5:49:51 PM 

I don't know if I was too busy this weekend or what, but there seemed to be a shortage of good horror on the tele!!  There was some, but nowhere near what there should have been...I feel a little cheated in the 'scare' department. 

[mmmmmm] Sunday, November 02, 2008 1:43:11 PM 
electric off at brother's house--no football on the big screen hi-def tv for me 
[Udo Sapper] Sunday, November 02, 2008 8:23:31 AM 
I hate going to the Rockfabrik in Ludwigsburg where they are supposed to be playing Heavy Metal and having to listen to NU Metal all night long...
[scorpion01] Sunday, November 02, 2008 12:22:25 AM 
DISCO - OH BOY! I JUST GOT HOME FROM A HOLLOWEEN PARTY. FREE BEER, BURGERS AND HOT DOGS. BUT I COULDN'T TAKE IT. I HAD TO LEAVE EARLY. I HATED IT IN THE 70'S AND IT IS JUST AS BAD TODAY.

GOT IN THE CAR AND CRANKED UP PERSECUTION. BETTER THAN ANY ASPRINE CAN DO FOR A HEADACHE.
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 01, 2008 8:15:57 AM 
slow computers !!
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:43:49 AM 

Just found out my high school football team lost yet another game !!-they are 1-9 this year

but what can ya expect when your high school football teams has the same name as condoms --(Chambersburg Trojans )

[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:37:49 AM 
12 hours a day ??--oh boy -that does suck --I'd be too tired for pretty much anything else
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:32:48 AM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:34:34 AM 
LOL--DF--I work 8 hours a night --5 days a week --used to do 60 work weeks when I was younger but my ticker won't let me work a lot of overtime--I work every weekend unless I ask for time off--all I know from past years' experience --it'l be a LONG night !
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[ron h] Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:32:48 AM 
I've been working twelves for the better part of two weeks now...
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[Deep Freeze] Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:31:22 AM 
NINE??? My dear, nine hours is part time where I come from....HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:29:17 AM)
[mmmmmm] Saturday, November 01, 2008 7:29:17 AM 
Clocks turn back tonight --I work weekends so that means I have be there for 9 whole hours --egads !!--I love my job & I love what I do but 9 whole hours !!--
[devils_child] Friday, October 31, 2008 7:20:08 AM 
Yup everyone come visit Australia in the Spring / Summer... it's lovely. The only thing that sucks is when it get's humid... much like a sauna
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:53:00 AM)
[mmmmmm] Friday, October 31, 2008 7:10:57 AM 
having to wear a mask at work because I have a cold & don't want my patients to be sick ( also I'm too stubborn to call off )--now I''m told any cold we get we have to make a doc's appointment !!----$30 copay just for some doc to tell me I have a cold ??--Good Grief !!
[Udo Sapper] Friday, October 31, 2008 3:53:32 AM 
2° C and rain...
[.] Thursday, October 30, 2008 1:30:39 PM 
I'd love to see some snow right about now. November is far too warm.
[lalouve] Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:54:43 AM 
May I join you in the sun gang ? We got snow here .... started yesterday afternoon..... brrrrrrrr ..... freezing.....
[mmmmmm] Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:53:00 AM 
Oh wow --you make me wish I was there with you--but you're right --you already had your turn !!-I'll just have to stock up on Puff's Plus & Sudafed !!
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[devils_child] Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:50:45 AM 
Hate to say it hun.,... but it's time for your part of the world to have the cold and flu problem.... i'm glad it's spring here..... mmmm smell the pretty flowers and bask in the warm sun! Paradise i tells ya..
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:47:08 AM)
[mmmmmm] Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:47:08 AM 

darn autumn colds !!

If I lay down my nose clogs  up & if I sit up my nose runs like it's training for the NY marathon

AAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH--lose /lose situation

[mmmmmm] Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:33:16 AM 

You're right --Steelers --Penguins --76'ers !

And there's always my wrestling & UFC to keep me preoccupied in the meantime !!


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[Return_of_Darth_Painkiller_0870] Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:30:37 AM 
Cheer up lana!  There is football, hockey and basketball to be played still! 
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:05:08 AM)
[mmmmmm] Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:05:08 AM 
 World Series over 
no baseball til next year !! 
[mmmmmm] Wednesday, October 29, 2008 8:27:52 PM 
8 years & 10 years for being married--I'm ready for the glue factory !!
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[spapad] Wednesday, October 29, 2008 8:26:04 PM 
Oh God! there goes another 8 years off your life! LOL
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[mmmmmm] Wednesday, October 29, 2008 8:19:44 PM 
Going to bed this morning perfectly healthy & waking up woth a sore throat & sniffles--damn cold fairy visited me whilst I was sleeping !!  --the cold fairy is probably a man !!
[momo] Wednesday, October 29, 2008 7:01:19 PM 
What really sucks is when I was younger I could handle the cold, now that I'm old, I don't handle it so well.
[hellrider 31038] Wednesday, October 29, 2008 6:50:33 PM 
it is getting cold out.totally suuuuuuuuucccccccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkssssssssssssssssssss.
Edited at: Wednesday, October 29, 2008 6:51:18 PM
[Udo Sapper] Wednesday, October 29, 2008 12:28:55 AM 
Thanks for the welcome.
 
It does look like a great party in here and I also know how to deal with party poopers...

Udo
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[spapad] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 9:47:00 PM 
Nite Lana, Sweet dreams!
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[mmmmmm] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 9:42:00 PM 
having to go to work when your best friends are awake & on the board--g'night all --get 40 winks for me would ya ??
[Head banger] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 4:02:57 PM 
some days I feel just like that too.  hang in there, it will get better, or so I am told. 
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by scorpion01 from Tuesday, October 28, 2008 3:47:26 PM)
[scorpion01] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 3:47:26 PM 
HB - THANK YOU FOR THAT ADVICE. AND THANK YOU FOR THE ANALOGY.  IT DID MAKE ME LAUGH AND PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE.


  I LIKE THIS LITTLE GUY
[Head banger] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 3:28:38 PM 
asking mutual friends for advice related to the mariage is a worse idea than pissing on an electric fence
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[joedraper] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 3:28:36 PM 

Hi Udo,

I just wanted to say Hi and by your posts you look like a nice guy. There are so many wonderful people on this board and I hope you get to meet as many nice fellow Priest fans like I have in my time here


Helloooo Scorpion!! How you? I haven't spoken to you in ages and I hope you're well.

xxx


  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Udo S. from Tuesday, October 28, 2008 2:51:24 PM)
[scorpion01] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 3:18:37 PM 
I'm sure it will. Sometimes speaking to poeple with no emotional ties is helpful. Most of our friends are mutual and it is awkward and unfair to them to ask for advice. 
[Udo Sapper] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 2:51:24 PM 

Heavy Metal always gives me strength, too. It's like an injection.

Wow, I see you really have hard times at work. I just hope everything works out fine and your effort is appreciated.

Your wife asks herself if she's a single parent because you work your ass off to feed her needs. sure why not!

But if she worked half-time (like already mentioned) while your kids are at school and you are at work then you could be more at home when your whole family is at home, too....


Call mathematics of Life, if you please.


Udo

[scorpion01] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 1:24:58 PM 

UDO - THATS EXACTLY WHAT I TRY TO TELL HER. BUT AS MY JOB HAS BECOME MORE DEMANDING SHE DOESN'T WANT IT TO EFFECT OR INCONVENIENCE ANY OF HER ROUTINES. SEVERAL TIMES SHE HAD MADE THE COMMENT TO ME - WHAT AM I A SINGLE PARENT?  I'D LIKE TO BE HOME MORE, BUT I NEED TO DO WHAT I HAVE TO TO KEEP MY JOB.  I'M AN ACCOUNTANT FOR A COMPANY THAT JUST CAME OUT OF BANKRUPTCY AND IS TRYING TO GO PUBLIC IN 2009. HALF OF OUR STAFF HAD BEEN LET GO AND WE ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF BUDGETS THE THIRD QUARTER REVIEWS AND BEGINNING TO PREPARE FOR THE YEAR END AUDIT.  I NEED TO KEEP UP IF I WANT TO KEEP MY JOB. IT'S VERY STRESSFUL.

MUSIC AND GOING TO THE GYM RELAX ME AND IT SEEMS LIKE THOSE ARE THE THINGS I AM FINDING TIME FOR. 

ON TOP OF IT THE GYM I GO TO JUST WENT OUT OF BUSINESS AND THE NEW ONE I SIGNED UP FOR IS 20 MINUTES FURTHER EACH WAY FROM MY HOUSE, AND TWICE THE PRICE.

HB -  YOU ARE ALSO CORRECT - I SACRIFICE GOING TO METS OR ISLANDERS GAMES TO MAKE SURE THE KIDS HAVE WHAT THEY NEED, BUT MY WIFE JUST KEEPS PUTTING ON THE CREDIT CARD RELYING THAT I'LL FIND A WAY TO PAY FOR IT THE WAY I HAVE IN THE PAST. TIMES ARE DIFFERENT.

I NEED SOME PRIEST.

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Edited at: Tuesday, October 28, 2008 1:28:33 PM
[Head banger] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 1:22:18 PM 
Udo, your right, everyone has to ensure that they set the stage for a happy person on the other end.  if I force my wife to work all the time, then I set the stage for her being unhappy, therefore I will be unhappy.   same works in reverse.  I agree, a part time job while the kids are in school is not terible. having a couple of bucks to go out to a movie might make everyone happier.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Udo S. from Tuesday, October 28, 2008 1:09:58 PM)
[Udo Sapper] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 1:09:58 PM 
That sounds pretty heavy.

Can't your wife try to support you while the kids are in school?

Living up to your responibilities is what every man has to do but getting killed while others just sit there and watch isn't right in my opinion.

Everyone has the right to be happy but everyone also has a responibility towards himself of achieving it - somehow.

If I'm not happy I won't be able to make anyone else happy neither...

Udo

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[scorpion01] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 12:57:36 PM 
DP, I KNOW YOU ARE RIGHT, BUT I SEE IT AS LESS TIME I HAVE WITH MY WIFE AND KIDS.  I KNOW I AM PROBABLY BEING A LITTLE MOODY AND OVER TIRED, IT JUST SEEMS LATELY THAT I'VE BEEN WORKING HARDER AND CHASING MY TAIL AND GOING BACKWARDS. 

I PROBABLY NEED A LITTLE SUPPORT FROM SOMEWHERE AND IT FEELS LIKE THERE IS NO WHERE TO TURN. 

THE KIDS I CAN SEE NOT UNDERSTANDING. I HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO DO AS MUCH FOR THEM AS I USED TO. WE HAVEN'T SEEN AN INCREASE IN PAY IN 5 YEARS AND I'M ALWAYS TIRED WHEN I GET HOME AND DON'T FEEL LIKE DOING MUCH. 

LAST WEEK I MENTIONED TO MY WIFE THAT I MIGHT LOOK FOR A SECOND JOB TO HELP FNANCIALLY, SHE DOESNT WORK, SHE SPENDS ALL DAY HOME WHILE THE KIDS ARE IN SCHOOL. SHE TOLD MY WHY SO YOU CAN BE MORE DEPRESSING TO BE AROUND. I TRY MY HARDEST TO LIVE UP TO ALL MY RESPONCIBILITIES I JUST FEEL LIKE THERE IS NOT TIME FOR ME TO ENJOY ANYTHING. 

I GUESS I SHOULD COMPLAIN. I HAVE A JOB AND IT ALMOST PAYS THE BILLS. LATELY I JUST WISH THERE WAS A LITTLE MORE.  I CAN GO ON FOREVER BUT I GUESS IT WILL GET ME NOWHERE. 

I DO APPRECIATE THE ADVICE. 

AT TIMES LIKE THIS IN THE OLD OFFICE I USED TO PUT ON SOME MUSIC. CANT EVEN DO THAT ANY MORE.
[Deep Freeze] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 11:12:55 AM 
My friend, I know this is going to sound odd but cherish every minute of your time commuting AND being in your office. You cannot possibly imagine what it is like when they are gone!!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by scorpion01 from Tuesday, October 28, 2008 11:10:51 AM)
[scorpion01] Tuesday, October 28, 2008 11:10:51 AM 
WE JUST MOVED OUT OFFICES AND MY COMMUTE IS 15 MINUTES LONGER EACH WAY I HAVE TO CHANGE TRAINS SO I CAN'T SLEEP ON THE TRAIN AND I HAVE TO STAND UP BECAUSE THERE ARE NO SEATS WHEN I CHANGE TRAINS. ALSO MY NEW SHOEBOX I MEAN CUBICAL IS IS TINY. I HATE IT
[mmmmmm] Monday, October 27, 2008 7:54:49 PM 
computer extremely slow--must take a break for now
[paperflowers] Monday, October 27, 2008 5:45:07 PM 
You can't not love Ian.
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by MG_Metalgoddess from Sunday, October 26, 2008 8:12:04 PM)
[mmmmmm] Monday, October 27, 2008 4:49:06 AM 

I see--I'm not a big Doplhin's fan so I didn't know he quit

and they don't usually televise Pitt Panther's games where I live but I do get to see Pen State every time they play --Penn State is so great this year & Pitt is flailing


  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Monday, October 27, 2008 4:45:12 AM)
[ron h] Monday, October 27, 2008 4:45:12 AM 
Used to be...benn the coach of Pitt for a few years now...had been kicking butt the last few weeks...big game Saturday and folded like a lawn chair!!!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Monday, October 27, 2008 4:42:31 AM)
[mmmmmm] Monday, October 27, 2008 4:42:31 AM 
It's too early in the morn for me to follow you--isn't Dave Wanstedt the coach for the Dolphins ??
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Monday, October 27, 2008 4:38:29 AM)
[ron h] Monday, October 27, 2008 4:38:29 AM 
That's OK...as you can see, you didn't miss much...apart from all the filth that went on here, I got caught up on my laundry...the down side was missing phone calls as I had to run up stairs and couldn't get it in time...you must be feeling good about those Phillies though...and I was hoping the Steelers could pull it off as well...however, I have a bone to pick with Dave Wanstedt...his PITT team cost me!!!
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Monday, October 27, 2008 4:33:25 AM)
[mmmmmm] Monday, October 27, 2008 4:33:25 AM 

no pm today my friend--but I'm super happy because the Phillies -Red Skins--Cowboys--Patriots-- Jets -- & Eagles won but   my  Steelers lost  & I got to see them losing in hi def tv--I think it made their defeat worse --just my opinion --plus my bro got a massage recliner chair & my back's been hurtin' since all the Halloween "fun " I had with the nieces --so I turned the massager on & the heat on & fell asleep during the world series --had to wait til I got home to google it   --damn hi-def & massage recliner chairs--but man did it feel good !!


  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Monday, October 27, 2008 4:25:25 AM)
[ron h] Monday, October 27, 2008 4:25:25 AM 
Good morning Lana...Go Phillies!!!...PM?
  [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Monday, October 27, 2008 4:23:10 AM)
[mmmmmm] Monday, October 27, 2008 4:23:10 AM 
Brother getting a hi-def tv AND a massage recliner--I watched hi-def football so much my eyes started bleeding & the massage chair made me fall asleep during the world series !!--MY EYES --MY EYES !! 
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