How can people go from one extreme to the next and NOT think that one doesn't carry over to the other has baffled me from the first time it happened.   I am NO expert on anything with relationships and marriage (twice divorced myself...) but the mind of a normal person doesn't shift gears at the drop of a dime!!!
And besides, who wants to 'be' with someone after disrespecting/degrading them???  Normal people just don't do that!!!

		kit kat wrote:
		What sucks is having a husband  who calls you every name in the book, then expects you to lie down with him!!  Not happening!!!!! No, not going to do it!!!!!! Edited at: Sunday, November 09, 2008 3:01:53 AM