| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 1:10:39 PM | |
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I'll be 44 on Sunday & the could very well be our daughters !!--but if ya want to know the truth --I never looked like that when I was their age --my dear 'ol daddy would never have left me leave the house
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 1:02:41 PM)| |  | kit kat wrote: | | Not only that but the look young enough to be my daughters! That's what scares me. I'll be 40 in December, I know they can't no older then 20.
| | | lana wrote: | | I was raised to not talk about people if they were different from you--but these men -not all men but some men call us names & degrade us to the point that we eat even more due to the hormones& emotions we're going through & we gain even more weight--just because we're heavier doesn't mean we haven't changed --we're still the same person inside where it counts but some men only see the outer package --did you ever wonder why in the "thong thread " there's no overweight gals ??--they all have perky boobs & tight bodies--I used to have perky boobs when I was in my 20's but alas gravity has taken it' s toll --now the only time my boobs are perky is if I 'm doing a headstand & no man is worth me standing on my head
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Men are sometimes so stupid. I get the same shit. Oh, you're fat. I tell him if you don't like the way I look, then he can just go to hell.
| | | lana wrote: | | I can see why he's your ex husband !!--mine calls me waddlecakes --he thinks it's a hoot but it hurts my feelings from time to time--I guess we have to look good for us 1st then the men--but it's hard when the men tell us what we don't want to hear--when us gals say " does this make my butt look bigger ??" -they could /should lie through their teeth & say "no dear --you look just fine as you are "--like we're ever gonna hear that !!
| | | lalouve wrote: | | And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 1:02:41 PM | |
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Not only that but the look young enough to be my daughters! That's what scares me. I'll be 40 in December, I know they can't no older then 20.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:57:17 PM)| | | lana wrote: | | I was raised to not talk about people if they were different from you--but these men -not all men but some men call us names & degrade us to the point that we eat even more due to the hormones& emotions we're going through & we gain even more weight--just because we're heavier doesn't mean we haven't changed --we're still the same person inside where it counts but some men only see the outer package --did you ever wonder why in the "thong thread " there's no overweight gals ??--they all have perky boobs & tight bodies--I used to have perky boobs when I was in my 20's but alas gravity has taken it' s toll --now the only time my boobs are perky is if I 'm doing a headstand & no man is worth me standing on my head
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Men are sometimes so stupid. I get the same shit. Oh, you're fat. I tell him if you don't like the way I look, then he can just go to hell.
| | | lana wrote: | | I can see why he's your ex husband !!--mine calls me waddlecakes --he thinks it's a hoot but it hurts my feelings from time to time--I guess we have to look good for us 1st then the men--but it's hard when the men tell us what we don't want to hear--when us gals say " does this make my butt look bigger ??" -they could /should lie through their teeth & say "no dear --you look just fine as you are "--like we're ever gonna hear that !!
| | | lalouve wrote: | | And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:57:17 PM | |
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I was raised to not talk about people if they were different from you--but these men -not all men but some men call us names & degrade us to the point that we eat even more due to the hormones& emotions we're going through & we gain even more weight--just because we're heavier doesn't mean we haven't changed --we're still the same person inside where it counts but some men only see the outer package --did you ever wonder why in the "thong thread " there's no overweight gals ??--they all have perky boobs & tight bodies--I used to have perky boobs when I was in my 20's but alas gravity has taken it' s toll --now the only time my boobs are perky is if I 'm doing a headstand & no man is worth me standing on my head
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:51:24 PM)| | | kit kat wrote: | | Men are sometimes so stupid. I get the same shit. Oh, you're fat. I tell him if you don't like the way I look, then he can just go to hell.
| | | lana wrote: | | I can see why he's your ex husband !!--mine calls me waddlecakes --he thinks it's a hoot but it hurts my feelings from time to time--I guess we have to look good for us 1st then the men--but it's hard when the men tell us what we don't want to hear--when us gals say " does this make my butt look bigger ??" -they could /should lie through their teeth & say "no dear --you look just fine as you are "--like we're ever gonna hear that !!
| | | lalouve wrote: | | And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [lalouve] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:53:48 PM | |
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Way to go Kit Kat !!!!!!! 
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:51:24 PM)| | | kit kat wrote: | | Men are sometimes so stupid. I get the same shit. Oh, you're fat. I tell him if you don't like the way I look, then he can just go to hell.
| | | lana wrote: | | I can see why he's your ex husband !!--mine calls me waddlecakes --he thinks it's a hoot but it hurts my feelings from time to time--I guess we have to look good for us 1st then the men--but it's hard when the men tell us what we don't want to hear--when us gals say " does this make my butt look bigger ??" -they could /should lie through their teeth & say "no dear --you look just fine as you are "--like we're ever gonna hear that !!
| | | lalouve wrote: | | And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:51:24 PM | |
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Men are sometimes so stupid. I get the same shit. Oh, you're fat. I tell him if you don't like the way I look, then he can just go to hell.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:47:10 PM)| | | lana wrote: | | I can see why he's your ex husband !!--mine calls me waddlecakes --he thinks it's a hoot but it hurts my feelings from time to time--I guess we have to look good for us 1st then the men--but it's hard when the men tell us what we don't want to hear--when us gals say " does this make my butt look bigger ??" -they could /should lie through their teeth & say "no dear --you look just fine as you are "--like we're ever gonna hear that !!
| | | lalouve wrote: | | And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:47:10 PM | |
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I can see why he's your ex husband !!--mine calls me waddlecakes --he thinks it's a hoot but it hurts my feelings from time to time--I guess we have to look good for us 1st then the men--but it's hard when the men tell us what we don't want to hear--when us gals say " does this make my butt look bigger ??" -they could /should lie through their teeth & say "no dear --you look just fine as you are "--like we're ever gonna hear that !!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lalouve from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:41:46 PM)| | | lalouve wrote: | | And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:44:48 PM | |
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Just looks, men are visual beings. If a woman doesn't look good they will let you know. Aren't you the one who post those girls in the "Thong" thread????
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:36:00 PM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [lalouve] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:41:46 PM | |
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And we worry about it because most men make remarks........like my ex-husband....jeez....I was below 100 pounds and he use to tell me I had too much weight !!!!! I know it's hard to believe, but it IS true !!! (I got mad at him then lolll)
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:36:00 PM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:41:13 PM | |
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| I guess we women are vain because of the men in the world --I used to walk past a construction site & get wolf whistled at but I started to gain a little weight & no more wolf whistles--I used to spend hours on my hair & make-up but now I'm just a wash & go kind of girl & as long as I have my lip gloss I'm set -- |
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| [Head banger] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:36:00 PM | |
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some should wory, but why, its just looks, thats what women worry about!!!!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:31:29 PM)| | | kit kat wrote: | | Believe me so men do!
| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:35:55 PM | |
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That sounds so painful! OUCH
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:33:21 PM)| | | lana wrote: | | 2 9 LB KIDS --WOW --surgery is not an option for me too-I have fears that if I go to a plastic surgeon I'm afraid they'll be talking about me in surgery & making fun of me & I'll be the person who wakes up during the surgery--that actually happened to me when I had my gall bladder out --I woke up for a spilt second during it & really don't want to be operated on again
| | | kit kat wrote: | | After having 2 nine pound kids,,, I 'm screwed>>> and surgery is not an option!!! (Quoting Message by lana from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:25:18 PM)
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The more ice cream I eat the saggier my boobs get--it's so UNFAIR !!  |
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| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:33:21 PM | |
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2 9 LB KIDS --WOW --surgery is not an option for me too-I have fears that if I go to a plastic surgeon I'm afraid they'll be talking about me in surgery & making fun of me & I'll be the person who wakes up during the surgery--that actually happened to me when I had my gall bladder out --I woke up for a spilt second during it & really don't want to be operated on again
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:30:16 PM)| | | kit kat wrote: | | After having 2 nine pound kids,,, I 'm screwed>>> and surgery is not an option!!! (Quoting Message by lana from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:25:18 PM)
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| The more ice cream I eat the saggier my boobs get--it's so UNFAIR !! |
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:31:29 PM | |
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Believe me so men do!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:30:26 PM)| | | lana wrote: | | | HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:30:26 PM | |
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| HOW COMES MEN CAN EAT ALL THE ICE CREAM THEY WANT & NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT SAGGY BOOBS--EVER WIDENING HIPS ,THIGHS & BUTTS & THE " I WAVED GOODBYE 2 DAYS AGO & MY ARM'S STILL WAVING " ??--WHY OH WHY ! |
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:30:16 PM | |
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After having 2 nine pound kids,,, I 'm screwed>>> and surgery is not an option!!! [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lana from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:25:18 PM)
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| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:25:18 PM | |
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| The more ice cream I eat the saggier my boobs get--it's so UNFAIR !! |
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| [lalouve] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:24:40 PM | |
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Exactly ! 
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:23:38 PM)| | | kit kat wrote: | | Yeah, like to the boobs!!! lol
| | | lalouve wrote: | | yeah, that's soooo unfair ! It never goes were we want it lol
| | | kit kat wrote: | | That's my problem, straight to the hips and butt! lol
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:23:38 PM | |
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Yeah, like to the boobs!!! lol
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by lalouve from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:22:14 PM)| | | lalouve wrote: | | yeah, that's soooo unfair ! It never goes were we want it lol
| | | kit kat wrote: | | That's my problem, straight to the hips and butt! lol
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| [lalouve] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:22:14 PM | |
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yeah, that's soooo unfair ! It never goes were we want it lol
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:19:49 PM)| | | kit kat wrote: | | That's my problem, straight to the hips and butt! lol
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| [mmmmmm] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:21:11 PM | |
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and thighs & are arms wave goodbye 3 minutes after we've stopped waving !!--but man it feels good sliding down !!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by kit kat from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:19:49 PM)| | | kit kat wrote: | | That's my problem, straight to the hips and butt! lol
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| [156555464] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:19:49 PM | |
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| [lalouve] Friday, November 07, 2008 12:18:32 PM | |
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That's good news. Come to think of it, surgery has gone better and better.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, November 07, 2008 12:10:51 PM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | I know someone who got theirs out at 39. said it sucked for a while, but was good after.
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