| [K2M] Friday, February 20, 2009 7:26:23 PM | |
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| THank YOu very MUch Bev. Have a Heavy Metal Weekend |
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| [Bev] Friday, February 20, 2009 7:09:28 PM | |
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| [K2M] Friday, February 20, 2009 7:04:08 PM | |
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| [Bev] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:47:36 PM | |
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He's been married 3 times. I should have listened to him in the beginning, neither here nor there now.
I am worth a much better quality of life. The only way to get it, is to get it myself. With the help of a few friends along the way, and a strong personal committment to self, I have endured. The men that I have had the distinct honor of coming to know on this board are part of what has kept my faith in men alive, and part of the reason I stuck it out. Spouse and I are not close, in the partner dept., that part is dead and gone some 5 years now. After last night, I am hoping that when he moves into the townhouse nextdoor, we can all be civil, if for not other reason than to see our son successfully through school. Then I will be moving to a different state with only what I brought into this relationship.
But this is old news for some here. So enough of that ...
Cheers to the good life! I'm off to scavenge more pics ... lol
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Friday, February 20, 2009 6:36:42 PM)| |  | ronhartsell wrote: | | I'm happy for you, I know how that can be...I'm a 2 time loser myself...first one tried to drag me through the mud, but the second pretty much got her way...no kid's of mine in the first, which was the difference...any time it can be worked out, it's for the best for all...it's good he came around!!
| | | Bev wrote: | | Had a breakthrough with soon to be ex during his birthday dinner, yesterday. He actually opened up about his personal life, and acknowledged where he's been spending the nights he hasn't been home. I usually only get a text message the following morning, that he's "on the boat". 'Course he was discovered two years ago. But it took this long for him to come to terms with the fact I wasn't gonna drag him through a nasty divorce, take half of everything he's worked his life for, etc. And that we can actually work this out to everyone's benefit. So my day has been unusually low on the stress meter! ... for however long it lasts : )
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Well Bev, I definately had a better day than HB did...lol, off today and had to play catch-up on some running around...how about yourself??
| | | Bev wrote: | | I was gonna sound off about this reply ... but, sometimes it's best that a friend keep quiet.
I will say, there is more to people than what they present of themselves here on the board.
So, how was your day, Ron?
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol 
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [ron h] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:36:42 PM | |
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I'm happy for you, I know how that can be...I'm a 2 time loser myself...first one tried to drag me through the mud, but the second pretty much got her way...no kid's of mine in the first, which was the difference...any time it can be worked out, it's for the best for all...it's good he came around!!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Bev from Friday, February 20, 2009 6:23:09 PM)| | | Bev wrote: | | Had a breakthrough with soon to be ex during his birthday dinner, yesterday. He actually opened up about his personal life, and acknowledged where he's been spending the nights he hasn't been home. I usually only get a text message the following morning, that he's "on the boat". 'Course he was discovered two years ago. But it took this long for him to come to terms with the fact I wasn't gonna drag him through a nasty divorce, take half of everything he's worked his life for, etc. And that we can actually work this out to everyone's benefit. So my day has been unusually low on the stress meter! ... for however long it lasts : )
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Well Bev, I definately had a better day than HB did...lol, off today and had to play catch-up on some running around...how about yourself??
| | | Bev wrote: | | I was gonna sound off about this reply ... but, sometimes it's best that a friend keep quiet.
I will say, there is more to people than what they present of themselves here on the board.
So, how was your day, Ron?
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Bev] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:32:36 PM | |
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Night, Canada. 'til next time 
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, February 20, 2009 6:20:50 PM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | | well all, have a great night., I will see you all tomorow |
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| [spapad] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:23:48 PM | |
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Night HB, don't drive yourself crazy with all the monies!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, February 20, 2009 6:20:50 PM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | | well all, have a great night., I will see you all tomorow |
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| [Bev] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:23:09 PM | |
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Had a breakthrough with soon to be ex during his birthday dinner, yesterday. He actually opened up about his personal life, and acknowledged where he's been spending the nights he hasn't been home. I usually only get a text message the following morning, that he's "on the boat". 'Course he was discovered two years ago. But it took this long for him to come to terms with the fact I wasn't gonna drag him through a nasty divorce, take half of everything he's worked his life for, etc. And that we can actually work this out to everyone's benefit. So my day has been unusually low on the stress meter! ... for however long it lasts : )
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Friday, February 20, 2009 6:14:54 PM)| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Well Bev, I definately had a better day than HB did...lol, off today and had to play catch-up on some running around...how about yourself??
| | | Bev wrote: | | I was gonna sound off about this reply ... but, sometimes it's best that a friend keep quiet.
I will say, there is more to people than what they present of themselves here on the board.
So, how was your day, Ron?
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Head banger] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:20:50 PM | |
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| well all, have a great night., I will see you all tomorow |
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| [Head banger] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:17:07 PM | |
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nope. I gave it up not long after, went out. took back some of my can and bottle colection. should be able to pay for dinner now.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Bev from Friday, February 20, 2009 6:12:40 PM)| | | Bev wrote: | | Hope I didn't embarrass you HB. Apologies if I did.
| | | Head banger wrote: | | ah well. left it, she is missing some info. sigh.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [ron h] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:14:54 PM | |
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Well Bev, I definately had a better day than HB did...lol, off today and had to play catch-up on some running around...how about yourself??
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Bev from Friday, February 20, 2009 5:37:50 PM)| | | Bev wrote: | | I was gonna sound off about this reply ... but, sometimes it's best that a friend keep quiet.
I will say, there is more to people than what they present of themselves here on the board.
So, how was your day, Ron?
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Bev] Friday, February 20, 2009 6:12:40 PM | |
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Hope I didn't embarrass you HB. Apologies if I did.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, February 20, 2009 5:39:36 PM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | ah well. left it, she is missing some info. sigh.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Head banger] Friday, February 20, 2009 5:39:36 PM | |
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ah well. left it, she is missing some info. sigh.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Friday, February 20, 2009 5:15:06 PM)| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Bev] Friday, February 20, 2009 5:37:50 PM | |
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I was gonna sound off about this reply ... but, sometimes it's best that a friend keep quiet.
I will say, there is more to people than what they present of themselves here on the board.
So, how was your day, Ron?
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Friday, February 20, 2009 5:15:06 PM)| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Becks] Friday, February 20, 2009 5:33:14 PM | |
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Just reading a review of Iron Maidens first concert in New Zealand in 16 years, here's an exerpt that really stood out for me hehe:
"The triple axe attack of Adrian Smith, Dave Murray and Janick Gers were full of rock histrionics. The jump kicks and machine gun guitars were in effect and they really did give a lesson on how to put on an entertaining show that young bands would do well to heed."
Ain't that the truth!  |
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| [ron h] Friday, February 20, 2009 5:15:06 PM | |
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Sounds like you're having a crappy day HB...well, it is for your wife...lol
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, February 20, 2009 11:04:02 AM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [scorpion01] Friday, February 20, 2009 2:12:41 PM | |
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HELLO EVERYONE. THE AUDITORS ARE UT OF THE OFFICE AND I JUST SENT THEN THE LAST 3 ITEMS ON THEIR REQUEST LIST. I MAY GET MY LIFE BACK SOON.
AN HOUR OR SO AT HE GYM, MAYBE USE THE SAUNA, A NICE SHOWER DINNER AND A COLD BEER, AND SOME METAL SOUND GOOD FOR TONIGHT. (I CAN DREAM CAN'T I?)  |
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| [Necroticist] Friday, February 20, 2009 11:42:09 AM | |
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K - have just created another culinary delight...will catch y'all later tonight...have fun. |
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| [Head banger] Friday, February 20, 2009 11:16:35 AM | |
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nope, ok, back to the grind.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Friday, February 20, 2009 11:04:02 AM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Head banger] Friday, February 20, 2009 11:04:02 AM | |
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all could be well, come over and fill in these stupid forms.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Friday, February 20, 2009 10:55:14 AM)| | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [ron h] Friday, February 20, 2009 10:55:14 AM | |
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Hey everyone, hope all's well...good to see you're up and about DF!!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Friday, February 20, 2009 10:33:38 AM)| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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| [Head banger] Friday, February 20, 2009 10:35:46 AM | |
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missed that. doing year end payroll crap for wifes store. yay. not.
this is a pain in the ass.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Bev from Friday, February 20, 2009 10:22:12 AM)| | | Bev wrote: | | K, that went over well.
All kidding aside, hope whatever he's dealing with, he is able to work through.
Guess I'll go find something productive to do, kill a couple of hours.
Good Friday to all!
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| [Deep Freeze] Friday, February 20, 2009 10:33:38 AM | |
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HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I missed THAT exchange! I had to run out. Bev, thanks for the kindness! Always a pleasure.
MM is very busy with his work and all. He tells me he just does not have the time to come in and chat. I suppose that is a good thing, but the selfish part of me wishes he could find the time.... |
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