| [~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Monday, September 15, 2008 11:53:20 AM | |
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Hard as Iron... Iam very Happy for you and your family... It sounds like everything is working out for you.. And that is precious... We missed you around here.....
I hope you are back... on the board..
Hugs to you and your family..
MG~
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Hard as Iron from Monday, September 15, 2008 10:49:37 AM)| |  | Hard as Iron wrote: | | It has been ages since I've last posted. I wanted to let you all know, those who advised me about a year ago to just pick up and go with my heart, I will tell you it worked and thank you so much. My wife and three kids came out to Phoenix, AZ, no job lined up and our lives packed up in a Honda minivan and Corolla. We stayed with my parents until we could got situated. I also have my wife to thank because she was the driving force behind it all.
My status now is that I've had a job for two months and we are all settled in living in Mesa, AZ, so if anyone lives in the area, holla at me. Along with this new chapter in my life, also came this superb album that I can relate to in so many ways. Not only has the music been able to ground me and help me through some stressful moments, it has also allowed me to connect with songs like, Exile, Alone, Peace, Sands of time etc..
CROSS OVER THE MOUNTAINS
AND VALLEYS SO WIDE
I WALK AS I WONDER
WITH HOPE BY MY SIDE
ALL MY FRIENDS ARE FAR AWAY
HOW I MISS MY HOME
WHERE DO I FIND PEACE OF MIND
GUIDE ME AS I ROAM
I CRY FOR YOU
These lyrics say it all. Now that I am here, hopefully I can find out where Rob hangs out, since he lives somewhere in the valley.
If anyone has any info on how their performance was and the set list, please let me know, I would appreciate it. Keep the Faith!
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| [K2M] Monday, September 15, 2008 11:41:17 AM | |
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| [Hard as Iron] Monday, September 15, 2008 10:49:37 AM | |
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It has been ages since I've last posted. I wanted to let you all know, those who advised me about a year ago to just pick up and go with my heart, I will tell you it worked and thank you so much. My wife and three kids came out to Phoenix, AZ, no job lined up and our lives packed up in a Honda minivan and Corolla. We stayed with my parents until we could got situated. I also have my wife to thank because she was the driving force behind it all.
My status now is that I've had a job for two months and we are all settled in living in Mesa, AZ, so if anyone lives in the area, holla at me. Along with this new chapter in my life, also came this superb album that I can relate to in so many ways. Not only has the music been able to ground me and help me through some stressful moments, it has also allowed me to connect with songs like, Exile, Alone, Peace, Sands of time etc..
CROSS OVER THE MOUNTAINS
AND VALLEYS SO WIDE
I WALK AS I WONDER
WITH HOPE BY MY SIDE
ALL MY FRIENDS ARE FAR AWAY
HOW I MISS MY HOME
WHERE DO I FIND PEACE OF MIND
GUIDE ME AS I ROAM
I CRY FOR YOU
These lyrics say it all. Now that I am here, hopefully I can find out where Rob hangs out, since he lives somewhere in the valley.
If anyone has any info on how their performance was and the set list, please let me know, I would appreciate it. Keep the Faith!
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| [Vaillant 3.0] Sunday, September 14, 2008 4:29:58 PM | |
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Just sneaking in to say hi and that I'm settled into my new home except for the Internet (at the moment I'm just borrowing it from a friend). I should have it by the end of this week...hopefully sooner. Hope everyone is enjoying their weekend!!  |
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| [~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Sunday, September 14, 2008 1:07:58 PM | |
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Have a great week everyone.. Iam off to the city, for relaxing, and Partying.. LOL
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| [~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Sunday, September 14, 2008 8:12:24 AM | |
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| [Soylentgreen4u] Saturday, September 13, 2008 6:48:55 PM | |
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WHY SO EXCITED???...YOU KNOW I'M GONNA CALL THEM AND TELL THEM TO SKIP THE 'PEG
ANYWAY!...(YOUR REACTION PERHAPS):     ......
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by MEDALGODDESS from Saturday, September 13, 2008 6:32:19 PM)| | | MEDALGODDESS wrote: | | OMG.. OMG... OMG...... AC/DC is releasing tour dates... f*ck yeah!!!
Another headbangin time for me...LOL Iam going to bring my 10 year old newphew to the show... LMAO.. He loves them .. Priest to.. ( someone had to bring the kid up right) LOL..
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| [~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Saturday, September 13, 2008 6:32:19 PM | |
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OMG.. OMG... OMG...... AC/DC is releasing tour dates... f*ck yeah!!!
Another headbangin time for me...LOL Iam going to bring my 10 year old newphew to the show... LMAO.. He loves them .. Priest to.. ( someone had to bring the kid up right) LOL..
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| [kitty12] Saturday, September 13, 2008 3:14:13 PM | |
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Freeze,
I was able to see pictures of the Priest show you all went to. It was so nice to put your face with a name. You all looked so good and had a good time to boot. |
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| [Jeanine] Saturday, September 13, 2008 8:36:36 AM | |
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| [joedraper] Friday, September 12, 2008 8:58:47 PM | |
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DEN!! long time no see!! It's late and I'm awake!! lol
How the hell are you???
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by DEN1673 from Friday, September 12, 2008 4:00:25 PM)| | | DEN1673 wrote: | | | Wassssssuppppppp, Mutha F'rrrrrrsssssss................... Happy Friday People!!!! |
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| [DEN1673] Friday, September 12, 2008 4:00:25 PM | |
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| Wassssssuppppppp, Mutha F'rrrrrrsssssss................... Happy Friday People!!!! |
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| [spapad] Friday, September 12, 2008 11:47:41 AM | |
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Hi DF! Your missed!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Thursday, September 11, 2008 9:52:12 PM)| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | | OK, as I was saying...HA!!!! Oh my! What an incredible device this is!! Anyway, I wanted to tell you all what wonderful experience the Vegas show was!! It was a true joy to spend time with so many dear friends. I am sure there have been many posts regarding this great event but I had to say this. I hope to get back again soon. |
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| [Deep Freeze] Thursday, September 11, 2008 9:52:12 PM | |
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| OK, as I was saying...HA!!!! Oh my! What an incredible device this is!! Anyway, I wanted to tell you all what wonderful experience the Vegas show was!! It was a true joy to spend time with so many dear friends. I am sure there have been many posts regarding this great event but I had to say this. I hope to get back again soon. |
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| [Head banger] Thursday, September 11, 2008 9:47:30 PM | |
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sweet. good to see you again.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Thursday, September 11, 2008 9:16:09 PM)| | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | Hello all!! I am using my sons new Sidekick cell phone to check in! Amazing! I will try to get back again in a while!!
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| [Deep Freeze] Thursday, September 11, 2008 9:16:09 PM | |
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Hello all!! I am using my sons new Sidekick cell phone to check in! Amazing! I will try to get back again in a while!!
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"Comparisons to Carla and KatrinaIke is larger than Katrina was, both in its radius of tropical storm force winds--275 miles--and in it radius of hurricane force winds--115 miles. For comparison, Katrina's tropical storm and hurricane force winds extended out 230 and 105 miles, respectively. Ike's surge will probably rival the massive storm surge of Hurricane Carla of 1961. Carla was a Category 4 hurricane with 145 mph winds at landfall, and drove a 10 foot or higher storm surge to a 180-mile stretch of Texas coast. A maximum storm surge of 22 feet was recorded at Port Lavaca, Texas. Despite the fact that the center of Carla hit over 120 miles southwest of Houston, the hurricane drove a 15-foot storm surge into the bays along the south side of the city. Ike's maximum surge is not likely to reach the extreme values above 20 feet seen in Hurricane Carla, though."
http://www.wunderground.com/blog/JeffMasters/show.html
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by LORD of TEXAS from Thursday, September 11, 2008 2:03:45 PM)| | | LORD of TEXAS wrote: | |  IKE go away..............you 
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| [guidogodoy] Thursday, September 11, 2008 7:46:36 PM | |
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GAAAAA!!!!! Damn good info to know! I am in TN in massive storm country where electrical codes are mere suggestions. Lost power today, in fact. Clear, windless day. Just happens all the time. The "grounding" in this house is just a joke.
Thanks a BUNCH for that little tidbit, Healer. Something to ask the ol' invisible fence guy when he shows up for more training tomorrow. Wire surrounds both my big wooden house and pool. Let's hope he knew what he was doing...keep ya' posted or, if you never hear from me again, you'll know what happened!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Healer from Thursday, September 11, 2008 6:55:41 PM)| | | Healer wrote: | | Just a little word of caution. Make sure your electrical system is well grounded and even then, be careful. Our neighbor and friends house got struck by lightning a few weeks ago. Although it struck a tree about a hundred yards back, it traveled through their invisible dog fence and caused a fire that destroyed their home and killed both their dogs. So if your going to be gone for a while and there is a chance of thunderstorms you should disconnect your system.
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
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Just a little word of caution. Make sure your electrical system is well grounded and even then, be careful. Our neighbor and friends house got struck by lightning a few weeks ago. Although it struck a tree about a hundred yards back, it traveled through their invisible dog fence and caused a fire that destroyed their home and killed both their dogs. So if your going to be gone for a while and there is a chance of thunderstorms you should disconnect your system.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:32:46 AM)| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
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| [scorpion01] Thursday, September 11, 2008 2:36:36 PM | |
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JD - YOU SAID IT BEST, WHAT'S DONE IS DONE. YOU CAN'T GO BACK AND CHANGE IT. LEARN FROM IT FOR YOUR FUTURE. DON'T CARRY IT WITH YOU. THE ONLY ONES WHO WILL GET HURT ARE YOU AND THE ONES AROUND YOU. YOU HAVE MANY YEARS IN FRONT OF YOU. DON'T RUIN THEM BY LOOKING BACK. TIME WILL MOVE TOO QUICKLY. YOU COULDN'T CONTROL WHAT THEY DECIDED TO DO. IT'S SAD, BUT THERE SHOULD BE NO GUILT ON YOU PART.
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| [LORD of TEXAS] Thursday, September 11, 2008 2:03:45 PM | |
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IKE go away..............you
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| [joedraper] Thursday, September 11, 2008 1:54:22 PM | |
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Thanks HB, Loripip, Guido, Healer, Vail;
Everything you all said made sense and today I'm trying to put things into perspective. I feel a little less guilty about mourning and I guess I just need some time to process this all.
Healer, maybe it is also a case of unfinished busines as you said, I would have liked to have made my peace with him but what's done is done.
Thank you all for being an ear, it makes situations like these just that tiny bit more bareable.
xxxx
Love you all
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Head banger from Wednesday, September 10, 2008 10:44:45 PM)| | | Head banger wrote: | | perfectly normal reaction. all best wishes to you!
| | | joedraper wrote: | | Hello Metal Family,
I'm in need of some love tonight... I caught up with my childhood best friend. We stopped talking to each other thirteen years ago because of a guy that screwed up our friendship, well, we were an unoficial item.. everyone knew we were together and then out of the blue, he shacks up with my best friend behind my back. Because I felt so betrayed by the two people who ment the most to me at the time, I lost it and said some very choice words to both of them; severed ties and dissapeared. I walked away from everything I knew and started over again in a new town...
So thirteen years go by and we get in touch. I figured the two of them would be happily married or whatever equivelent there was for them. To find out from her that not only did they have five years of a rocky relationship and broke up in the end but, he drowned five years ago.
I feel lost all over again. I'm in a happy marriage with the best husband and kids so why am I feeling such a loss over this guy again?
To confuse things more, I'm overjoyed that my friend and I made up but I feel I'm betraying her and my husband by feeling so lost over this guys death? |
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| [Vaillant 3.0] Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:57:00 AM | |
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HA!!! Well, if the dog whisperer guy doesn't fix the problem, then do this:
Find something you know the Shoe-Muncher likes to chew, and slather it in Tabasco sauce. 
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:51:29 AM)| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Pieces, you mean. DAMN FURRY BEAST!!!
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | Awww!! Pobrecito!! At least its in Hat Heaven now...may it rest in peace. 
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Tame? Nah, I have given up all hope of that...damn shoe muncher ate my FAVORITE hat the other day! Don't know where he found it but find it, he did. Like a murder scene. Pieces strewn about the house. Horrible...horrible sight. Sniff. Poor hat. In the prime of life. Only function in life was to celebrate the World Series winner of 2001. Sniff....
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | I've heard about those invisible fences, but I've never seen them at work.
Looks like you'll finally tame your pooches for the first time!! HA!!! Let us know how it goes!!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | All black and in gold lettering... very impressive. I'll bet it has supernatural powers!!... A wonderful addition to any collection...including my arsenal of Heavy Metal photos!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | As promised, Vail....pic of Tony Iommi's pick!
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| [guidogodoy] Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:51:29 AM | |
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Pieces, you mean. DAMN FURRY BEAST!!!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Vaillant 3.0 from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:48:07 AM)| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | Awww!! Pobrecito!! At least its in Hat Heaven now...may it rest in peace.
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Tame? Nah, I have given up all hope of that...damn shoe muncher ate my FAVORITE hat the other day! Don't know where he found it but find it, he did. Like a murder scene. Pieces strewn about the house. Horrible...horrible sight. Sniff. Poor hat. In the prime of life. Only function in life was to celebrate the World Series winner of 2001. Sniff....
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | I've heard about those invisible fences, but I've never seen them at work.
Looks like you'll finally tame your pooches for the first time!! HA!!! Let us know how it goes!!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | All black and in gold lettering... very impressive. I'll bet it has supernatural powers!!... A wonderful addition to any collection...including my arsenal of Heavy Metal photos!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | As promised, Vail....pic of Tony Iommi's pick!
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| [Vaillant 3.0] Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:48:07 AM | |
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Awww!! Pobrecito!! At least its in Hat Heaven now...may it rest in peace.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:44:23 AM)| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Tame? Nah, I have given up all hope of that...damn shoe muncher ate my FAVORITE hat the other day! Don't know where he found it but find it, he did. Like a murder scene. Pieces strewn about the house. Horrible...horrible sight. Sniff. Poor hat. In the prime of life. Only function in life was to celebrate the World Series winner of 2001. Sniff....
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | I've heard about those invisible fences, but I've never seen them at work.
Looks like you'll finally tame your pooches for the first time!! HA!!! Let us know how it goes!!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | All black and in gold lettering... very impressive. I'll bet it has supernatural powers!!... A wonderful addition to any collection...including my arsenal of Heavy Metal photos!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | As promised, Vail....pic of Tony Iommi's pick!
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Tame? Nah, I have given up all hope of that...damn shoe muncher ate my FAVORITE hat the other day! Don't know where he found it but find it, he did. Like a murder scene. Pieces strewn about the house. Horrible...horrible sight. Sniff. Poor hat. In the prime of life. Only function in life was to celebrate the World Series winner of 2001. Sniff....
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Vaillant 3.0 from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:40:13 AM)| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | I've heard about those invisible fences, but I've never seen them at work.
Looks like you'll finally tame your pooches for the first time!! HA!!! Let us know how it goes!!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | All black and in gold lettering... very impressive. I'll bet it has supernatural powers!!... A wonderful addition to any collection...including my arsenal of Heavy Metal photos!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | As promised, Vail....pic of Tony Iommi's pick!
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| [Vaillant 3.0] Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:40:13 AM | |
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I've heard about those invisible fences, but I've never seen them at work.
Looks like you'll finally tame your pooches for the first time!! HA!!! Let us know how it goes!!!!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:32:46 AM)| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | All black and in gold lettering... very impressive. I'll bet it has supernatural powers!!... A wonderful addition to any collection...including my arsenal of Heavy Metal photos!!!
| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | As promised, Vail....pic of Tony Iommi's pick!
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Think I should use it? Maybe I'll play better. Naaaahhhhh!
On another note, big developments 'round the house here. Got an invisible fence installed today. No more puppies tormenting the neighborhood! I would like to have given them an acre or so to run around but them mutts are diggers. Decided to just do a small area around the side of the house. Man, you should have seen them puppies jump when shocked for the first time! Real training starts bright and early tomorrow. Local dog whisperer is planning to show up bright and early meaning that I am gonna have to be off far earlier than normal. Looks like it works from first impressions...
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Vaillant 3.0 from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:22:31 AM)| | | Vaillant 3.0 wrote: | | All black and in gold lettering... very impressive. I'll bet it has supernatural powers!!... A wonderful addition to any collection...including my arsenal of Heavy Metal photos!!!
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All black and in gold lettering... very impressive. I'll bet it has supernatural powers!!... A wonderful addition to any collection...including my arsenal of Heavy Metal photos!!!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by guidogodoy from Thursday, September 11, 2008 12:08:11 AM)| | | guidogodoy wrote: | | As promised, Vail....pic of Tony Iommi's pick!
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As promised, Vail....pic of Tony Iommi's pick!
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| [Head banger] Wednesday, September 10, 2008 10:44:45 PM | |
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perfectly normal reaction. all best wishes to you!
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by joedraper from Wednesday, September 10, 2008 3:54:52 PM)| | | joedraper wrote: | | Hello Metal Family,
I'm in need of some love tonight... I caught up with my childhood best friend. We stopped talking to each other thirteen years ago because of a guy that screwed up our friendship, well, we were an unoficial item.. everyone knew we were together and then out of the blue, he shacks up with my best friend behind my back. Because I felt so betrayed by the two people who ment the most to me at the time, I lost it and said some very choice words to both of them; severed ties and dissapeared. I walked away from everything I knew and started over again in a new town...
So thirteen years go by and we get in touch. I figured the two of them would be happily married or whatever equivelent there was for them. To find out from her that not only did they have five years of a rocky relationship and broke up in the end but, he drowned five years ago.
I feel lost all over again. I'm in a happy marriage with the best husband and kids so why am I feeling such a loss over this guy again?
To confuse things more, I'm overjoyed that my friend and I made up but I feel I'm betraying her and my husband by feeling so lost over this guys death? |
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| [crypticangle] Wednesday, September 10, 2008 9:37:08 PM | |
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Hey Joe--am so sorry to hear about your troubles.
It's perfectly normal & natural to feel what you're feeling & think what you're thinking.
They were such a huge part of your past & even though it ended on a mad/sad note, you had the courage to pick yourself up, dust yourself off & start all over again.
And you're not betraying anyone so don't even think that.
It was a chapter of your life & now a piece of it's missing so keep in touch with your friend & hold your husband & kids
It will get better !!
Sending Kleenex's your way !!
MUCH METAL LOVE TO YOU, MY FRIEND
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| [Healer] Wednesday, September 10, 2008 8:31:53 PM | |
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Hey Joe, I'm really sorry about your loss. You shouldn't feel quilty at all. I know I would be very upset if I found out my ex-boyfriend(in my case, 1st love) passed away suddenly. When someone has been such a huge part of your life, good and bad it's normal to feel such strong emotions. Could be a feeling of unfunished business or something. I think your emotions are natural and hooking up with your past friend I think will help you move on and forgive. Good Luck with everything and just remember, "Keep the Faith!"
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by joedraper from Wednesday, September 10, 2008 3:54:52 PM)| | | joedraper wrote: | | Hello Metal Family,
I'm in need of some love tonight... I caught up with my childhood best friend. We stopped talking to each other thirteen years ago because of a guy that screwed up our friendship, well, we were an unoficial item.. everyone knew we were together and then out of the blue, he shacks up with my best friend behind my back. Because I felt so betrayed by the two people who ment the most to me at the time, I lost it and said some very choice words to both of them; severed ties and dissapeared. I walked away from everything I knew and started over again in a new town...
So thirteen years go by and we get in touch. I figured the two of them would be happily married or whatever equivelent there was for them. To find out from her that not only did they have five years of a rocky relationship and broke up in the end but, he drowned five years ago.
I feel lost all over again. I'm in a happy marriage with the best husband and kids so why am I feeling such a loss over this guy again?
To confuse things more, I'm overjoyed that my friend and I made up but I feel I'm betraying her and my husband by feeling so lost over this guys death? |
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| [guidogodoy] Wednesday, September 10, 2008 5:32:14 PM | |
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That is a really sad tale, Joe. Personally, I don't think that it is wrong to feel such emotions. Perfectly natural, in fact. I recently learned that a guy I barely knew past high school died recently and I still feel upset about it. Heck, I couldn't even really call him a "friend" but he was still someone I knew and feel the loss just the same. I can only imagine what you must be feeling.
Much metal love, my friend.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by joedraper from Wednesday, September 10, 2008 3:54:52 PM)| | | joedraper wrote: | | Hello Metal Family,
I'm in need of some love tonight... I caught up with my childhood best friend. We stopped talking to each other thirteen years ago because of a guy that screwed up our friendship, well, we were an unoficial item.. everyone knew we were together and then out of the blue, he shacks up with my best friend behind my back. Because I felt so betrayed by the two people who ment the most to me at the time, I lost it and said some very choice words to both of them; severed ties and dissapeared. I walked away from everything I knew and started over again in a new town...
So thirteen years go by and we get in touch. I figured the two of them would be happily married or whatever equivelent there was for them. To find out from her that not only did they have five years of a rocky relationship and broke up in the end but, he drowned five years ago.
I feel lost all over again. I'm in a happy marriage with the best husband and kids so why am I feeling such a loss over this guy again?
To confuse things more, I'm overjoyed that my friend and I made up but I feel I'm betraying her and my husband by feeling so lost over this guys death? |
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